If God’s original plan in the garden of Eden was good when: God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them (Gen 1:27), there will be both men and women in heaven, in their supernatural state. And in the next life we have a physical body, Job saying: in my flesh I shall see God. (Job 19:26)
If this life is to prepare us for the next, it seems absurd to say that something as fundamental as the sexes will be altered in heaven. If it is abominable for a woman to wear a man’s garment and vice versa (Deut 22:5), how much more abominable would sex change be. Yet some say that because there is no marriage in heaven, everyone must be of neuter gender.
Jesus did say: in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are as the angels of God in heaven. (Matt 22:30) But no marriage does not mean no sexuality, only that it is not practical to demand permanent monogomous relationships, in a state where pleasures are so great and time is measured in millions of years. According to Genesis 6 the sons of God (angels) married women. Presumably there are also female angels. Although we do not see female angels bringing God’s messages, we also do not see many female prophetesses in the bible.
It would however be theoretically possible for God to preserve sexuality but take away the capacity for sexual pleasure, but to do this would be to say that sexual pleasure was evil and that a mistake was made in the way that God originally created man and woman.
It is possible that sexual pleasures will be enhanced in the glorified bodies of those 864 million men and women in the kingdoms, to between between seventy times thirty, that of Adam when he was first created, and seventy times seventy, that of Adam. Perhaps an enhancement factor of one hundred means ten times the pleasure for ten times the duration. This is possible in a physical body, because the chemistry of the body is different, allowing increased duration, and purity of love, and because, to varying degrees, the atoms of that body are miniaturised, allowing increased intensity, and consciousness of love. All will be able to say with Solomon: Thou hast ravished my heart with one of thine eyes.
Eight hours each night are, in addition to sleep, for love and sexual pleasures. All glorified female saints will have aphrodisiac dripping from their breasts, which will, when sucked, increase the man’s orgasmic pleasure. Glorified male saints will have aphrodisiac in their tongues, which they impart to the woman through kissing to increase the woman’s orgasmic pleasure.
The man must be strong to hold the woman still enough to continue kissing her as the woman becomes wilder and wilder with excitement, during her multiple orgasms. Similarly the woman must have big breasts with big nipples to hold the man’s mouth to her breast, as he becomes increasingly overwhelmed with pleasure, in order to keep him attached, until he falls asleep in her arms. After he sleeps in her arms for a while, he awakes and they continue in pleasures. The female does not sleep on nights when she is with a man, sleeping only two nights in three, as all females make love only one night in three.
In the three Southern kingdoms, there are the same number of women as men, and men only make love one night in three; and that night consists of three love making sessions, each of twenty-five minutes. In the two middle kingdoms there are twice as many females as males, and the male makes love two nights in three; one night with three sessions, and the other with two. The intensity of the females pleasure and the frequency of her orgasms is also increased. In the Northern kingdom there are three times as many females as males. The aphrodisiacs are in more abundant supply stimulating the man to make love every night, and increasing the frequency of the female's multiple orgasms. The physical pleasure of the female, is also more intense. In the Northern kingdom, one night there is three sessions, and two nights, there are two sessions a night of love making. The whole night is always with the same female.
For those ten million humans and ten million angels within the Holy City, it is even better. Their bodies are supernaturaly enhanced twenty-five times more than those who dwell outside the city, making them capable of receiving more pleasure again. The intensity of the female's pleasures is greater than that of the males. Within the Holy City, humans more greatly desire to sleep with angels to humans, and angels generally prefer to sleep with humans to angels, although pleasure is the same.
The timetable for males every night, is four episodes of love making a night. Each session comprises: twenty minutes of hugging and kissing before each session; forty-five minutes of continuous love making, finishing with several minutes orgasm; then fifty minutes sleep between sessions. After the last session, in the morning there is only half an hour's rest; twenty minutes sleep, and ten minutes restful fellowship. This completes the night of seven hours and twenty minutes in bed for the male. But in the morning the woman is are so weak through pleasures, that the man must make her breakfast, and serve her in bed.
A woman may have one or two husbands. If she has two husbands, she has one man most of the time, six or seven nights a month, and the other man only one or two nights a month. So she really has a husband and a lover. Eternity is a long while to stay faithful to just one man. Some women need variety, and some do not, as the nature of women varies more than that of men.
For the males of the Holy City, there is an extra reward. During the day, while working, in the morning with one female, and in the afternoon with another female, they fly over their kingdoms with a female in a space chariot, paved with love (Song of Solomon 3:9,10,) for the daughters of the New Jerusalem. Both morning and afternoon they enjoy either one, two, or three sessions of forty minutes love making in the chariot built for two. Males with more reward enjoy more daytime love making sessions, although all males have four sessions every night. These females may be different from the females they sleep with at night. So there are day wives and night wives.
Males like to be with their females. Females like to dream about their males. Because the females are so prone to erotic dreaming through the weakness of their infatuations, they do not even need to be with their males to be overcome with orgasmic pleasure. This happens when they are trying to work, just from thinking. So the females do not miss out on pleasures, just because there are more females than males.
Some might think that all this sex would make heaven very immoral. But to the contrary, what is sexual pleasure but that pleasure which is mutual and shared creating fellowship, interdependent creating respect, and complementary creating relationship (viva la difference). As such, sexual pleasure, in contrast with drugs, creates love and harmony. To be filled with abstract psychedelic joy would leave us emotionally barren. Their is no sexual pleasure on Sundays, when we have our greatest fellowship with God, and there is no sexual pleasure for forty minutes before and twenty minutes after our three times of prayer each day. But basically we are not gods, and continue to need each other.